Hope is the last things that should loose. Without hope there really is no future. Some may say is unrealistic but in my eyes those who say that have a dark soul and bitterness of some sort that doesn't let them be happy.
I can only say this because I thought my perfect marriage was lost. So I decided to let it go and move on with my life. I never lost hope. I wondered where we had gone wrong...and just like a novel or movie we had the enemy next to us. A FAMILY member...telling me how awful my husband to be was for me. And on the other hand telling him how awful his future was going to be next to me.
But since we never lost hope we looked deep inside ourselves and realised that love was stronger than any harm or envy that surrounded us.
So here we are today, together, married and in love. We never lost hope...hope you don't either and don't let anyone influence your decisions.